Woman, if you are going to correct a man, you must remember that he resides in his head. He will need you to be direct and forthcoming. Then, do not expect to talk about it. A man will want to use his own logic and reasoning to come to the necessary reordering. He is created to be the leader and to fight for what he believes in-- therefore his initial reaction will be one of surprise, which easily stokes his pride. Answer any questions he may ask, and if he refuses it as a possibility, insist that you are not seeing ghosts... but let him go to think through the issue at hand by himself. If he is a good man he will come back to you after he has wrestled through it with God and let you know the result.
The most important thing is that he knows that you respect him and love him unconditionally. In order for him to desire to wrestle with God, he must know that you believe he has what it takes to see it through and become a man of God.
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